Microsoft recommended reading:
Overall review of issues:
http://www.smallbizserver.net/Default.aspx?tabid=53&forumid=6&postid=67633&view=topic
Links which more specifically address the VPN issue:
RDP / RWW stop working after installation of SP2:
Performance suggestions:
MS registry change to adjust for Receive Side Scaling:
http://support.microsoft.com/default.aspx?scid=kb;EN-US;927695